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The funeral director asked Jack if he was "Friend or Family."
If the funeral director prepared the body and it was that of Michael Dawson
(a male black)
Then why would he ask a male white (Jack Shepard) if he was "Family ?"
The director should have asked "How well did you know the deceased ?" or something along those lines.
It would be ludicrous of him to ask a white male (Jack) if he was family to a male black character (Michael Dawson; or Walt Lloyd for that matter.)
The only person that fits the coffin criteria is John Locke.
Jack ain't family to him.
They aren't friends.
And Kate was banished from Barracks-ville by John Locke. So her dialogue with Jack at the airport fits.
And we saw Ben Linus off the Island. (in Germany)
Posted by HudsonDuster